Posts where I dive into my fantasies, kinks, and the messier side of desire—because that’s part of the journey too.
ABDL pacifiers weren’t something I expected to connect with. But they helped me sleep, self-soothe, and feel calm in a way nothing else ever has.
A beginner-friendly look at popular ABDL brands, what makes each one unique, and one brand to approach with caution as I explore ABDL for myself.
ABDL diapers weren’t something I expected to try, but they brought me a surprising sense of calm and safety. And helped me rethink what comfort can look like.
I explored ABDL and discovered surprising comfort, calm, and gentle rituals that help me feel grounded, safe, and emotionally regulated.
I thought feminization turned me on—but it was really submission. Being a submissive crossdresser helped me uncover who I really am.
I still feel embarrassed to use sex toys, even though I love them. This is how crossdressing helped me unpack the shame—and why I’m done hiding.
Is crossdressing offensive to women? Here’s what my wife asked me that shook me—and why I think it’s a question worth sitting with, not avoiding.
Why a transgender photoshoot feels like more than a fantasy—and how it could help me build confidence, feel seen, and finally be myself.
Crossdressing for sexual pleasure is normal and valid. Here’s why it’s okay, how to do it respectfully, and what it taught me about myself.
Struggling with kink shame? You’re not broken—and you’re not alone. Let’s unpack where it comes from and how to start letting go of the guilt.