Hello everyone.
I know I’ve been unusually quiet here lately, and I wanted to take a moment to acknowledge that directly.
Over the past several weeks, my life has shifted in ways I really didn’t anticipate. Some of those changes have been/are genuinely positive. Others have been difficult and disorienting. Together, they’ve forced me to re-evaluate how I spend my time and energy.
Between Genders has always been something I approached with intention. Writing here isn’t casual for me. It requires emotional presence, research, and a level of focus that I simply don’t have right now. Continuing to post sporadically or half-heartedly would undermine the very reason this space exists.
So for the time being, I’m stepping back.
This isn’t an announcement of anything specific, and it isn’t a closing statement either. It’s simply an honest assessment of capacity. Right now, my life is moving quickly, and I need to prioritize the parts of it that demand my full attention. That means I don’t have the time to maintain this site in the way I believe it deserves.
I’m deeply grateful to everyone who has read, reflected, and reached out over the life of this blog. The conversations here have mattered to me more than I can easily put into words.
For now, consider this a pause.
When things settle and if returning here makes sense, I’ll speak again then.
Thank you for understanding.
Michelle
2 Comments
Charlotte Sparkle · February 17, 2026 at 8:40 pm
Hi Michelle,
I just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge your post. It’s completely understandable that life sometimes takes unexpected turns, and it sounds like you’re navigating some big shifts right now. I’m really glad to hear that some of those changes are positive, though I know it can still be a lot to manage.
Taking a step back to prioritize what truly needs your attention is such a wise decision. It’s never easy to do, but it’s often the best choice. You’ve created such a meaningful space here, and I’m sure everyone who’s been part of this journey with you will completely understand.
Wishing you all the best as you navigate this time. I truly hope that everything works out for you, and when things settle, I’ll be here, looking forward to hearing from you again. Take care of yourself, and good luck with everything!
Lotte x
Sue Richmond · March 1, 2026 at 3:24 pm
Time out is important, Michelle. I look forward to your return to blogging when you are able. In the meantime, look after yourself. Sue xx