Posts from my old blog—less relevant to where I am now, but still might speak to someone else’s journey.
As I near 40, crossdressing isn’t about looking sexy—it’s about dressing in a way that feels authentic, age-appropriate, and affirming.
Total beginner at makeup? Here’s how I used ChatGPT to learn what to buy, how to apply it, and get real feedback—without the pressure.
I can’t always go full girl mode—but subtle makeup helps me feel feminine in boy mode. Here’s what I wear daily to stay connected.
I’m still learning makeup—but even as a beginner, it helps me feel more like the woman I know I am. Here’s where I’m at, and what I’m working on.
Wearing a sports bra at work helped me feel more feminine—even in boy mode. Here’s what I wore, how it felt, and why it mattered.
Shapewear showing through your shirt? A simple camisole might be the fix you didn’t know you needed—here’s how I found out.
Crossdressing over 40? Here’s how to dress confidently for your age—without losing your femininity or personal expression.
A signature scent can ground you in your femininity—quietly, powerfully. Here’s mine, and why it matters more than you might think.
How crossdressing helped me finally care about fitness—and why weight loss now feels like a step toward femininity, not just health.
Living between two worlds—public conformity and private truth—makes crossdressing feel both essential and exhausting. Here’s how I cope.