Hello, lovelies!
I’m Michelle.
If you’re here, you’re probably questioning something—your gender, your kink, your identity… or maybe trying to understand someone you love.
Either way: I see you. And I’m really glad you’re here.
This blog isn’t just about clothes or kink or femininity. It’s about figuring yourself out when you’re not even sure where to begin. I don’t have all the answers—but I’ve got a lot of questions, and I write through them every single day.
This space is raw, real, and sometimes messy.
Part journal, part deep-dive, part emotional spiral.
You’ll find everything from crossdressing and gender identity to sissy kink, makeup tips, weight loss, shame, confidence, toys, and mental health.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about being honest.
Choose Your Path
Crossdressing, Identity & Coming Out
- Can I Be a Straight Crossdresser? Yes, Actually.
- Crossdressing Guilt: Why You Feel It and How to Heal
- Caught Crossdressing: What to Do When Your Partner Finds Out
- How to Come Out As a Crossdresser to Your Partner
- Is Crossdressing a Fetish or Identity? Here’s How to Tell
- Crossdresser vs Transgender: How Do I Know Which One I Am?
Questioning If You’re Trans
- Can You Be Transgender Without Transitioning? (coming soon)
- Are You Trans Enough To Transition? (coming soon)
- Am I Too Old to Transition? What It’s Like Later in Life (coming soon)
- How to Tell Your Partner You’re Transgender (coming soon)
- MTF HRT Timeline: What Changes to Expect (and How Fast) (coming soon)
For Wives, Partners & Curious Loved Ones
- My Partner Is a Crossdresser: How to Talk About It (coming soon)
- Was Our Relationship a Lie? No! Here’s Why (coming soon)
- What Does My Husband Crossdress? (coming soon)
- Is This Kink or Identity? A Partner’s Guide (coming soon)
Feminization, Sissy Play & Sexual Exploration
- (coming soon)
Want to Know More About Me?
These posts dive deeper into my personal journey:
- Meet Michelle
- My Transgender Journey: Why I Had to Write This Blog
- Crossdresser vs Transgender: How I Finally Figured Out Who I Am
Some of My Favorite Posts
If you want a real feel for the heart of this blog, start with these:
- My First Time Transgender in Public—Terrified, but I Did It
- Living as a Transgender Housewife for a Week—And Loving It
- How I Came Out as Transgender to My Wife (And the Aftermath)
For a full list of my favorite articles, be sure to check out Michelle’s Faves.
What This Blog Is (and Isn’t)
This blog is…
- A space to explore gender, kink, femininity, and identity
- Deeply personal, often vulnerable, and sometimes intense
- A mix of emotional honesty and practical guidance
This blog isn’t…
- A porn site
- A gallery of sexy photos (I don’t feel particularly sexy anyway)
- A place for judgment, gatekeeping, or binary rules
Whether you’re here to understand yourself, support someone else, or just feel less alone… welcome.
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Love,
Michelle