This is the start of something real—my transgender journey. And let me be clear, it’s not going to be easy. Not for you, and definitely not for me.
For most of my life, I avoided conversations like this. I didn’t know how to talk about gender identity, sexuality, crossdressing, kink, or what turns me on. Honestly, I didn’t even try. Eventually, though, it got too loud to ignore.
Why I’m Sharing My Transgender Journey
I’m transgender. This is my journey.
To begin with, I’m writing this for myself. I want to remember what I was feeling and why. At the same time, I’m writing for others—for anyone who’s confused, questioning, or quietly searching for answers.
This transgender journey isn’t just about gender. Rather, it’s about the emotional chaos that comes with it. Shame, discovery, validation, confusion, and moments of joy. If any of that sounds familiar, I hope you feel a little more seen here.
What We’ll Talk About Along the Way
Let’s be honest—this is going to get uncomfortable. However, that discomfort means we’re talking about things that matter.
Here’s what I’ll be exploring in this blog:
- Crossdressing and how it first entered my life
- Gender identity and how it’s changed over time
- Transgender experiences that don’t follow a traditional narrative
- Gender fluidity and the blurred lines between labels
- Sexuality, kink, and attraction
- Submission and emotional vulnerability
- Shame, joy, and everything in between
- Relationships—especially with my wife, my kids, and how all this fits into family and work life
Even if you don’t relate to every detail, I hope something here feels familiar—or at least human.
What This Transgender Journey Is Not
To clarify, this isn’t a step-by-step transition story.
It’s also not a “how to be trans” guide.
Instead, it’s simply my experience. The thoughts I’ve had. The emotions I’ve wrestled with. The research, the fantasies, the shame, the hope. And while it may not always be pretty, it’s real.
I’m still learning. And I’m not claiming to have it all figured out. But this is me, finally choosing to be honest.
Who This Is For
This is for people who are questioning.
It’s also for the confused, curious, ashamed, and overwhelmed. Those exploring their gender or kink identity quietly, without support. And maybe most importantly, it’s for anyone who just wants to stop feeling like a freak.
Additionally, this is for the people who love us. Partners, spouses, family, friends—if you’re trying to understand someone like me, thank you for being here.
I’m Still on This Transgender Journey
No, I don’t have all the answers.
However, I’m done pretending that I’m not searching for them.
So if you’re here, reading this, maybe you’re searching too. And that means we don’t have to do this alone.
This is my transgender journey. And I’m genuinely glad you’re along for the ride.
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