Hey, lovelies.
I need to be honest with you. Real life is starting to get in the way a bit. As much as I want to post every single day, it just isn’t realistic right now. My original goal was to make it through the end of the year with one post a day—partly to tell my story, partly to help others, and partly because writing is how I learn too. But I’m realizing that balance matters, and I’ve been neglecting something important in my offline life.
So here’s the deal: I’m not stopping. Writing here is way too important to me. But I can’t sustain the pace of one a day anymore. Starting now, I’m pulling back to one post every three days.
For about a month, I’ll also be a little less visible—both here and around the blogs I love in this community. But don’t worry, I’ve already scheduled content during that time. Since my big focus lately has been on nutrition and learning how to shape my body, I’m passing along what I’ve been discovering.
Thank you for being patient with me. Thank you for reading, supporting, and sharing in this little corner of the internet. I’ll still be here—just at a pace that lets me breathe.
4 Comments
Charlotte Sparkle · August 19, 2025 at 12:54 pm
First of all, may I say how great your blog is. Your layout and fabulous and the content is great. I wish something like this would have been around when I first started crossdressing many years ago. A lot of effort has been put into it so far so just wanted to show my appreciation.
Secondly, it is hard to blog every day and before too long you run out of ideas and content. Also it can be quite time consuming and there is that danger that other things get neglected as a result. I understand you’re wanting to pull back a little and not post every day. Hopefully you can get the balance right (Depeche Mode playing in my head).
Wishing you all the Best
Lotte x
Michelle · November 4, 2025 at 12:15 pm
Thank you so much for your kind words! 💛 It means a lot to hear that the blog feels like a space you’d have appreciated when you were starting out. You’re so right. Trying to post every day is exhausting, and it’s easy to let other parts of life slip. I’m hoping this new pace will help me keep sharing while also keeping my sanity intact (and yes, Depeche Mode is a perfect soundtrack for that balance moment!). Thanks for the support! It really makes a difference.
Joanna Cole · August 21, 2025 at 7:50 am
Blimey! One a day!?
When I started I aimed for 15 a month and it soon proved impossible! Much respect to your elbow, missus!
Michelle · November 4, 2025 at 12:15 pm
Ha! Yeah, one a day was ambitious to say the least. 😅 Fifteen a month already feels much more realistic—and sane. I’ve learned the hard way that pacing is key, not just for content but for my own well-being. Thank you for the respect and encouragement. It really helps!