Exploring the messier, more taboo side of things—because for me, gender and desire have always been tangled up together.
I read “She’s Not the Man I Married” by Helen Boyd and saw parts of my own marriage in it. Honest, emotional, and messy in all the ways gender and love can be.
I worked through the Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook as part of gender therapy. Here’s how it helped—and why I recommend it for trans folks in crisis.
I thought feminization turned me on—but it was really submission. Being a submissive crossdresser helped me uncover who I really am.
I still feel embarrassed to use sex toys, even though I love them. This is how crossdressing helped me unpack the shame—and why I’m done hiding.
I read “My Husband Betty” by Helen Boyd and kinda saw my marriage in it. Not perfect, but honest and real—and it hit way closer than I expected.
Crossdressing made me question my sexuality—and I’m glad it did. Here’s what I discovered, and why it’s okay not to have all the answers.
Crossdressing for sexual pleasure is normal and valid. Here’s why it’s okay, how to do it respectfully, and what it taught me about myself.
Is crossdressing always sexual? Not necessarily. Here’s how I navigate the line between kink, identity, and comfort—and why it’s all valid.
Struggling with kink shame? You’re not broken—and you’re not alone. Let’s unpack where it comes from and how to start letting go of the guilt.
Are you into forced feminization and sissification but questioning if that makes you less trans? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. Let’s talk about it.