Exploring the messier, more taboo side of things—because for me, gender and desire have always been tangled up together.
ABDL pacifiers weren’t something I expected to connect with. But they helped me sleep, self-soothe, and feel calm in a way nothing else ever has.
A beginner-friendly look at popular ABDL brands, what makes each one unique, and one brand to approach with caution as I explore ABDL for myself.
ABDL diapers weren’t something I expected to try, but they brought me a surprising sense of calm and safety. And helped me rethink what comfort can look like.
I explored ABDL and discovered surprising comfort, calm, and gentle rituals that help me feel grounded, safe, and emotionally regulated.
I read “She’s Not the Man I Married” by Helen Boyd and saw parts of my own marriage in it. Honest, emotional, and messy in all the ways gender and love can be.
I worked through the Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook as part of gender therapy. Here’s how it helped—and why I recommend it for trans folks in crisis.
I thought feminization turned me on—but it was really submission. Being a submissive crossdresser helped me uncover who I really am.
I still feel embarrassed to use sex toys, even though I love them. This is how crossdressing helped me unpack the shame—and why I’m done hiding.
I read “My Husband Betty” by Helen Boyd and kinda saw my marriage in it. Not perfect, but honest and real—and it hit way closer than I expected.
Crossdressing made me question my sexuality—and I’m glad it did. Here’s what I discovered, and why it’s okay not to have all the answers.