Hello, lovelies!
I’m Michelle.
If you’re here, you’re probably questioning something—your gender, your kink, your identity… or maybe trying to understand someone you love.
Either way: I see you. And I’m really glad you’re here.
This blog isn’t just about clothes or kink or femininity. It’s about figuring yourself out when you’re not even sure where to begin. I don’t have all the answers—but I’ve got a lot of questions, and I write through them every single day.
This space is raw, real, and sometimes messy.
Part journal, part deep-dive, part emotional spiral.
You’ll find everything from crossdressing and gender identity to sissy kink, makeup tips, weight loss, shame, confidence, toys, and mental health.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about being honest.
Choose Your Path
Crossdressing, Identity & Coming Out
- Can I Be a Straight Crossdresser? Yes, Actually.
- Crossdressing Guilt: Why You Feel It and How to Heal
- Caught Crossdressing: What to Do When Your Partner Finds Out
- How to Come Out As a Crossdresser to Your Partner
- Is Crossdressing a Fetish or Identity? Here’s How to Tell
- Crossdresser vs Transgender: How Do I Know Which One I Am?
Questioning If You’re Trans
- Can You Be Transgender Without Transitioning?
- Are You Trans Enough To Transition?
- Am I Too Old to Transition? What It’s Like Later in Life
- How to Tell Your Partner You’re Transgender
- MTF HRT Timeline: What Changes to Expect (and How Fast)
For Wives, Partners & Curious Loved Ones
- My Partner Is a Crossdresser: How to Talk About It
- Was Our Relationship a Lie? No! Here’s Why
- Does Crossdressing Make You Gay? Nope! But Let’s Talk
- Why Does My Husband Crossdress? Understanding the Reasons
- Is This Kink or Identity? A Partner’s Guide
Feminization, Sissy Play & Sexual Exploration
Want to Know More About Me?
These posts dive deeper into my personal journey:
- Meet Michelle
- My Transgender Journey: Why I Had to Write This Blog
- Crossdresser vs Transgender: How I Finally Figured Out Who I Am
Some of My Favorite Posts
If you want a real feel for the heart of this blog, start with these:
- My First Time Transgender in Public—Terrified, but I Did It
- Living as a Transgender Housewife for a Week—And Loving It
- How I Came Out as Transgender to My Wife (And the Aftermath)
For a full list of my favorite articles, be sure to check out Michelle’s Faves.
What This Blog Is (and Isn’t)
This blog is…
- A space to explore gender, kink, femininity, and identity
- Deeply personal, often vulnerable, and sometimes intense
- A mix of emotional honesty and practical guidance
This blog isn’t…
- A porn site
- A gallery of sexy photos (I don’t feel particularly sexy anyway)
- A place for judgment, gatekeeping, or binary rules
Whether you’re here to understand yourself, support someone else, or just feel less alone… welcome.
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Love,
Michelle