Reflections, advice, and experiences from my time identifying as a crossdresser—and what I wish I’d known back then.
How crossdressing helped me finally care about fitness—and why weight loss now feels like a step toward femininity, not just health.
Living between two worlds—public conformity and private truth—makes crossdressing feel both essential and exhausting. Here’s how I cope.
I can’t crossdress full-time—but I’ve found ways to stay connected to my femininity while balancing family, career, and everyday life.
Crossdressing helps me reconnect with the parts of myself I can’t always express in boy mode—emotionally, creatively, and personally.
Crossdressing brings peace—but not being able to express it fully can be mentally exhausting. Here’s how I’m learning to cope with the emotional toll.
Crossdressing made me question my sexuality—and I’m glad it did. Here’s what I discovered, and why it’s okay not to have all the answers.
My trauma didn’t cause me to be trans—but it delayed everything. Here’s how childhood trauma and gender identity shaped my path, and why I came out so late.
Crossdressing for sexual pleasure is normal and valid. Here’s why it’s okay, how to do it respectfully, and what it taught me about myself.
Is crossdressing always sexual? Not necessarily. Here’s how I navigate the line between kink, identity, and comfort—and why it’s all valid.
The desire to crossdress isn’t always constant. Here’s why it fluctuates, what it means, and how I’m learning to accept the ebb and flow.