Trying Soft Femininity Before I Called Myself Trans
A quiet, personal journey into soft femininity. This is how I started exploring the gentler parts of myself, one small ritual at a time.
Exploring gender in all its complexity—for me, for you, for anyone questioning where they fit or who they are.
A quiet, personal journey into soft femininity. This is how I started exploring the gentler parts of myself, one small ritual at a time.
Feminization and sissy play helped me realize crossdressing wasn’t just a kink—it felt like gender. Maybe even something deeper.
Crossdressing gave me the space to explore my sexuality. Sexual exploration, in turn, made me question if crossdressing itself was a sexual act. And that exploration eventually brought me face-to-face with sissy play and feminization. Honestly, it started with porn.I searched for people like me—crossdressers having sex. I didn’t care Read more…
Exploring crossdressing and sexuality gave me space to understand my desires—and what I discovered about kink, attraction, and identity surprised me.
I thought it was just about the clothes. But once I stopped hiding, I started exploring femininity. And I realized there was a lot more to figure out.
I got caught crossdressing by wife — and everything changed. Here’s what happened, what I told her, and how it slowly brought us closer.
Years after quitting, I started crossdressing in secret again. I hid everything from my wife, afraid of what she’d think. Here’s what that time was really like.
When I met my wife, I purged everything. Quitting crossdressing felt like the only way to protect my new relationship. It didn’t work—but it taught me a lot.
After college, I started crossdressing in secret. Alone, at home, and fully femme for the first time. It wasn’t about sex. It was about finally feeling like me.
In college, I stopped stealing panties—and started buying them for myself. Crossdressing in college helped me discover comfort, softness, and part of who I am.