Exploring gender in all its complexity—for me, for you, for anyone questioning where they fit or who they are.
I read “She’s Not the Man I Married” by Helen Boyd and saw parts of my own marriage in it. Honest, emotional, and messy in all the ways gender and love can be.
I worked through the Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook as part of gender therapy. Here’s how it helped—and why I recommend it for trans folks in crisis.
My therapist asked me: how can I become more feminine in my everyday life? This post explores the small, subtle, and emotional ways I’m answering that.
I thought feminization turned me on—but it was really submission. Being a submissive crossdresser helped me uncover who I really am.
Do I still benefit from white male privilege when I present as Michelle? A personal reflection on identity, perception, and the weight of what I carry.
I read “My Husband Betty” by Helen Boyd and kinda saw my marriage in it. Not perfect, but honest and real—and it hit way closer than I expected.
Is crossdressing offensive to women? Here’s what my wife asked me that shook me—and why I think it’s a question worth sitting with, not avoiding.
Why a transgender photoshoot feels like more than a fantasy—and how it could help me build confidence, feel seen, and finally be myself.
Living between two worlds—public conformity and private truth—makes crossdressing feel both essential and exhausting. Here’s how I cope.
My trauma didn’t cause me to be trans—but it delayed everything. Here’s how childhood trauma and gender identity shaped my path, and why I came out so late.