Exploring gender in all its complexity—for me, for you, for anyone questioning where they fit or who they are.
Is transvestite still appropriate today? Here’s why I use “crossdresser” instead and what the word transvestite gets wrong about gender expression.
A book review of Dress Codes by Richard Thompson Ford. This book focuses on explaining clothing as law, control, and social enforcement.
A book review of Trans Like Me by CN Lester. Examines transgender identity, gender nonconformity, visibility, and what it means to live between genders.
I’ve been married 15 years, but I still quietly long for a transgender wedding ring. A symbol that says I’m fully seen, loved, and included.
A clear guide to transgender discrimination at work, what it looks like, and how to prepare. Written by someone navigating this reality now.
A clear guide to transgender rights in the workplace, including federal protections, bathroom access, pronoun use, and your rights during transition.
A personal look at my transgender job search and the unexpected interview that forced me to rethink work, identity, and when to come out professionally.
Navigating life while being transgender at work is complicated. I share the choices, worries, and questions on my mind as I figure out my next steps.
Transgender loneliness has been hitting me lately, and I just needed to talk about it. This post is me being honest about how heavy the isolation can feel.
A quiet moment of love and understanding reminds me what transgender parenting is really about: teaching acceptance long before coming out.