Gender Identity
“My Husband Betty” by Helen Boyd – A Book Review
I read “My Husband Betty” by Helen Boyd and kinda saw my marriage in it. Not perfect, but honest and real—and it hit way closer than I expected.
Diet & Fitness
“I Want a Feminine Body”—But What Does That Actually Mean?
I want a feminine body. That’s what I’ve been working toward lately. I’ve started eating better. Moving more. Taking care of myself in ways that feel aligned with the woman I want to become. But here’s the thing: I can’t Read more…
Gender Identity
Is Crossdressing Offensive to Women? Let’s Talk About It
Is crossdressing offensive to women? Here’s what my wife asked me that shook me—and why I think it’s a question worth sitting with, not avoiding.
Fashion & Clothing
The Transgender Photoshoot Dream Inspired by a Friend
Why a transgender photoshoot feels like more than a fantasy—and how it could help me build confidence, feel seen, and finally be myself.
Fashion & Clothing
Navigating Age and Crossdressing: How I’m Finding My Style at 38
As I near 40, crossdressing isn’t about looking sexy—it’s about dressing in a way that feels authentic, age-appropriate, and affirming.
Makeup & Beauty
I Asked ChatGPT to Teach Me Makeup—Here’s What Actually Worked
Total beginner at makeup? Here’s how I used ChatGPT to learn what to buy, how to apply it, and get real feedback—without the pressure.
Makeup & Beauty
Yes, I Wear Makeup in Boy Mode—Here’s What Works for Me
I can’t always go full girl mode—but subtle makeup helps me feel feminine in boy mode. Here’s what I wear daily to stay connected.
Makeup & Beauty
I’m Not Trying to Be Glam—Just Trying to Look Normal
I’m still learning makeup—but even as a beginner, it helps me feel more like the woman I know I am. Here’s where I’m at, and what I’m working on.
Fashion & Clothing
Yes, I Wear a Sports Bra to Work—Here’s Why
Wearing a sports bra at work helped me feel more feminine—even in boy mode. Here’s what I wore, how it felt, and why it mattered.
Fashion & Clothing
Oops—My Waist Cincher Was Showing at Work! Here’s the Fix
Shapewear showing through your shirt? A simple camisole might be the fix you didn’t know you needed—here’s how I found out.